Soooo i left him get all touchy touchy now...?

So lets tak eone thing at a time..the shaking of the legs is adrenaline. Its something new and the first time you have sex your legs will probably shake for a while. Its just adrenaline and hormones and all that. Now as far as the soreness ( assuming your a virgin ) it will hurt for a few days. 2 fingers is way to much especially with just experimenting. He and you both need to take it slower and find what feels good and what dosent. Us women are very complicated beings. Our uterus can be tilted to cause pain, dryness can be an issue, as well as his hands not being washed can cause inflammation from any little bit of dirt. So be carefull. Also try some lube to make things a little more comfy. For now try some ice down there and a few ibuprofin and youll be okay. Please feel free to message me anytime if u have any personal questions that u dont feel comfortable asking on here :)