CSC 4th degree and i want to join the military?

i was charged with a 4th degree csc. i was 18 and the girl was 15. we were dating for 71/2 months. the whole time we were dating she told me she was 17. now dont judge because you know how younger women are. she lied to me and also had her friends lie to me. during the 7 1/2 months we had sex once and it was CONSENSUAL. i had no idea she was only 15 she looked at least 21. but due to my own poor judgement i messed up. im not denying i had sex with a underage girl but it was because i was lied to. if i would have known i would have never been anywhere near this girl. what i dont understand is why i was charged for sex with a minor when i was LIED to and nothing happend to her but i got to jail and get 5yrs probation and i have to register as a sex offender for 25 years. What is really messed up is that i live in lenawee country michigan were the courts rule everything and the cops are pos and do not take there job seriously. They claim that i had sex with her when she was 14 but i know for a fact that she was 15 now. We did not have sex till she claimed it was her 18th birthday. It was after her 15th birthday i know this because i went to her birthday party hosted by her parents. I do not feel that i should be on the registry i am not a sexual predator i do not go after kids or rape women like 99% of the RSO's i made a mistake and its costing me my life and future. but my state just passed a law called the romeo and juliet law were if the person was in 4yrs of you and consensual you do not have to register. my dirty court system lied and said it happened when she was 14 so im not sure if i qualify. But i want to join the USN and im not sure if i will be able to. If i can not qualify under this law does anyone know if i could talk to a recruiter and explain this situation and have a chance?? this question is intended for serious answers not stupid people talking smack. you can say what you want but you have to understand i am not a sexual predator i made a mistake due to a lie and im paying dearly for it. Please law enforcement/ military personal if you can please post a answer with help thank you i appreciate your time