Porn is boring, especially bdsm?

now that i am a tad older, I realize how p0rn, in all its forms, is painfully boring. This is especially true with porn billed as "rough/bdsm/non vanilla" etc. Same formula, same script, same dialogue, what's so edgy about it? what is so unique about consensual abuse? yet they bill it as so and so and it's clear that the actors are not even remotely in danger, nor do they geniunely enjoy it. They enjoy the money and attention of people looking at them, how sick is that. Anyway, i don't want to rant on, do you guys feel the same way?